Commonplace Book

A commonplace book is a central resource or depository for ideas, quotes, observations and information used to record them for later use. This commonplace book is for Wensleydale and Swaledale Quakers to share things that speak to them and are offered for your contemplation.

We read books to find out who we are. What other people, real or imaginary, do and think and feel is an essential guide to our understanding of what we ourselves are and may become. (Ursula LeGuin)

The commitment to the spiritual journey is not a commitment to pure joy, but to taking responsibility for the whole human family, its needs and destiny. We are not our own; we belong to everyone else. (Thomas Keating, The Mystery of Christ: The Liturgy as Spiritual Experience)

As we experience discomfort in this time, let’s begin to dream of a new normal, a new normal that addresses the weaknesses and problems that were going unaddressed in the old normal. If we’re wise, we won’t go back; we’ll go forward. (Brian McLaran “Dreaming of a New Normal,” Wisdom in Times of Crisis (Center for Action and Contemplation: 2020), faculty presentation (May 6, 2020)



The amazing fact of Quaker worship is that we sit in silence not to tell God how great God is. No, in silence together we wait. Sometimes, only sometimes, we feel a connection to God and to the ones around us; and if we’re very lucky, to ourselves. Our true selves. When that happens, we have our orders: ‘Pick up your cross and follow me’. The message is clear: not ‘Worship me’, but ‘Follow me’. Feed the hungry, tend the sick, welcome the stranger, let your life speak. Take the love you’ve been given unconditionally and pass it on. Give it to others who need it, who need to feel that miraculous connection that was given to you.

(The Friend - 4 Feb 2021 | by Kate McNally)

 

With my love to you in the holy peaceable truth

that never changes,

nor admits of evil,

but makes all free

that receive it

and that walk in it

And from the truth floweth justice,

equity, righteousness and godliness,

mercy and tenderness,

that brings a man’s heart, mind, soul and spirit

to the infinite and

incomprehensible God.

(George Fox’s Epistle 358 in ‘Mind the Oneness: The Mystic Way of the Quakers’ by Rex Ambler. Pendle Hill Pamphlets (number 463), 2020.)

 

In the universe, there are things that are known, and things that are unknown, and in between them, there are doors. (William Blake)

Blessed are you who bear the light in unbearable times...who bear witness to its persistence when everything seems in shadow and grief. (Jan Richardson, in St Bede's Winter Newsletter)

The beauty of silence is that it allows us to engage where we are. We are not dovetailed into someone else's sermon, neither are our devotions by an outward liturgy. Rather, our motions of faith can sit where they need to be, close to us in their authenticity and sincerity, closer to God in their directness and individuality. (Ben Pink Dandelion, Celebrating the Quaker Way)

The most basic experience of Silence is intimacy...Silence keeps us intimately bound with the truth of our being, constantly conveying to us in a bodily way that our individual and unique presence as soul, spirit, and body intermingles with the world and, at the same time, lives a free and independent existence. (Silence: The mystery of wholeness by Robert Sardello)

...view meeting for worship as a precious opportunity to become very present to the oneness of all humans, of all existence...come there to rest in the peace available...share space and time with the people who are not busy talking and doing, and who are collectively, consciously, aiming to lift our hearts and minds as high as they'll go. (Godless for God's Sake: Nontheism in Contemporary Quakerism by 27 Quaker Nontheists. Edited by David Boulton)

In times like these, our prayer may need to be expressive and embodied, visceral and vocal...How else can we pray about ecocide, about the death that humanity is unleashing upon Mother Earth and upon ourselves?...our prayer may be noisy and expressive, or it may be very quiet. It may be the kind of prayer that depends on listening in stillness and silence with complete attention: listening to our breath as we breathe God in and breathe God out, listening to the inner voice of love that is always sounding in our heart. A discipline of contemplative prayer or meditation can set us free from the frantic churn of thoughts and feelings and enable our spirit to rest and roam in a vaster, wilder space. (The Rev. Dr. Margaret Bullitt-Joan, "Love Every Leaf," in Rooted & Rising: Voices of Courage in a Time of Climate Crisis, eds. Leah D. Schade and Margaret Bullitt-Jonas. (Rowman & Littlefield: 2019))

We are all one in love...When I look at myself as an individual, I see that I am nothing. It is only in unity with my spiritual seekers that I am anything at all. It is this foundation of unity that will save humanity. (Julian of Norwich)

"Silence," said Thomas Merton, "is God's first language":
the way it soaks into your skin,
surrounds you,
blanketing you like the forest's breath.
Silence:
The cadence of the land at rest,
the body asleep,
the heart awake.
(Silence by Felicia Murrell (excerpt))
 
Behold, there are only three things that will last: faith, hope, and love; and the greatest of these is love.
(1 Corinthians 13:13)
 
 Prayer isn't always a set of of requests and demands. It can be like a place we enter - even a place in which may live and find a fuller life. Prayer can be a place of inward stillness and listening. Sometimes in stillness we will find comfort and help. (@ZoomQuakerQuest (tweet 14.5.21))
 
Nothing can make our life, or the lives of other people, more beautiful than perpetual kindness. (Leo Tolstoy)
 
Practice kindness all day to everybody and you will realise you're already in heaven now. (Jack Kerouac)
 
We have no other obligation upon each other but love, which is the very bond of our society: and therein to serve the Truth and one another. (Wiltshire Quakers in 1678)
 
It is a pity that we insist on using the terms 'humanity' and 'divinity' as though they implied opposition. May we not rather say that Jesus 'shows us the divine life humanly lived and the human life divinely lived'? (Yorkshire Quarterly Meeting, 1919)
 
To turn all the treasures we possess into the channel of universal love becomes the business of our lives. (John Woolman, 1837)
 
We must learn that to expect God to do everything while we do nothing is not faith but superstition. (Martin Luther King Jr., 1963)
 
Where despite disparities / We all care to protect this world, / This riddled blue marble, this little true marvel / To muster the verve and the nerve / To see how we can serve / Our planet. You don't need to be a politician / To make it your mission to conserve, to protect, / To preserve that one and only home / That is ours, / To use your unique power / To give the next generations the planet they deserve. (Amanda Gorman - Earthrise (excerpt)) 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 

 

Quaker Terms

  • Advices & queries – 42 insights of the Religious Society of Friends published as a small booklet which is also the first chapter of Quaker Faith & Practice 
  • Attender – someone who attends Quaker Meetings, but is not a Member of the Religious Society of Friends
  • Elder – a Quaker appointed to foster the spiritual life of  Meetings
  • Friend – a Quaker
  • Meeting for Worship – a gathering of Quakers for worship characterised by periods of silence and by members speaking as moved by the Spirit
  • Ministry – Speaking out of silence if feel moved to do so
  • Overseer – a Quaker appointed to provide pastoral care for individuals and the community.
  • Quaker – a Member of the Religious Society of Friends
  • Quaker Faith & Practice – The book of Christian discipline of the Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) in Britain
  • Testimonies – Quaker values (Simplicity, Truth, Equality, Peace, Sustainability) that are actively pursued

What is Quakerism? 

As members of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers), we try to put our faith into practice. We start with an understanding that there is ‘that of God in everyone’. Every human being is unique and precious. This has led us to a commitment to peace, equality, justice, simplicity and truth. These values, or testimonies, underpin Quaker thinking and action. Quakerism is a way of living – an active pursuit of peace and justice.

Quakerism has no creeds or commandments. True fulfilment comes from attempting to live life in the spirit of love, truth and peace. It’s up to each of us to interpret what or who God is.

This doesn’t mean we live with our heads in the clouds. We know and feel the often unjust and painful world we live in. But our worship leads us to recognise and foster a vision of a just and peaceful world. We strive to let our lives speak in an attempt to build that world in the ways we live and act.

Taken from  - 'A Quaker view on…'

If you look to Quakers for a definitive belief system you are going to be disappointed. We  have learned to trust the promptings of love and truth in our hearts as the leadings of God. We  base our lives on an outpouring of impulses and ideas that is different for each person, and we only believe what we have experienced.

Quakers today…share the impulse to work for social and spiritual change, and to help build a society inspired by the promptings of love and truth in every heart.

“Heaven is here now. We make it. It is something that comes out of everyday life.”

Taken from: Geoffrey Durham – 'What do Quakers Believe?'


“Our life is love, and peace, and tenderness; and bearing one with another, and forgiving one another, and not laying accusations one against another; but praying one for another, and helping one another up with a tender hand.”

Isaac Pennington, 1667 


From: Quaker Faith And Practice 10.01

Meeting for Worship

Please see 'News' for Meeting information during COVID-19 restrictions 

We recognise that stepping into a Quaker Meeting House for the first time might be a little daunting, so let us tell you what to expect.

Quakers usually hold a Meeting for Worship every Sunday (even though we believe no day is more special than any other). Worship is at the root and source of all that it is to be a Quaker and a Quaker community. We seek a place beyond words or thoughts, where hearts may be open, challenged and inspired.

As you step through the front door you will be welcomed by a Friend (Quaker) before entering the Meeting Room. The seating will often be arranged in a circular fashion,  emphasising that there is no clergy or hierarchy in a Quaker Meeting. In the centre of the room there will be a table with Quaker books (Quaker Faith & Practice, Advices and Queries) a Bible, flowers, and a small carafe of water. A blended meeting is one with the equipment to enable Friends to be part of the Meeting for Worship from wherever they are in the world.

Meeting for Worship can last up to an hour, based in silence. If one or more present at the Meeting is moved to speak (minister), he or she will stand and speak for a short time.  It is customary for everyone then to take time to consider what has been said and what meaning it has for them.

At the end of the meeting an Elder (a Quaker appointed to foster the spiritual life of the Meeting, ) will shake hands with the person beside them to indicate to the Meeting that the worship is concluded. Everyone else then shakes hands with the people around them.

Some time is then given to Afterthoughts, which is an opportunity to mention something or make a response to the ministry that didn't feel appropriate to offer into the Meeting for Worship. Someone will then read out news and announcements. After this Friends and Attenders have an opportunity to talk to one another over a cup of tea or coffee.

For more information and to get a feeling of a Meeting for Worship please watch this video from Quakers in Britain 

Quaker Meetings in the Dales Area

bainbridge

BAINBRIDGE

Friends Meeting House DL8 3EF (show map)

What3words: seated.digesting.scaffold (copy and paste to www.what3words.com)

Meeting for Worship: Sundays at 10.30 a.m. except for the last Sunday in the month.

 

countersett

COUNTERSETT

Friends Meeting House DL8 3DD (show map)

What3words: derailed.jelly.ambient (copy and paste to www.what3words.com)

Meeting for Worship: The last Sunday of the month at 10.30 a.m.

 

leyburn

LEYBURN

Friends Meeting House, 7 Grove Square DL8 7AE (show map)

What3words: hurt.indoors.indulges (copy and paste to www.what3words.com)

Meeting for Worship:   1st, 3rd, and 5th Sundays at 10.30 a.m. (a blended 45 minute Meeting)

                                 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Noon (30 minute Meeting)

 

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RICHMOND

The Scout Hut, Quakers Lane DL10 4BB (show map)

What3words: players.tweezers.flotation (copy and paste to www.what3words.com)

Meeting for Worship: Second & Fourth Sunday of every month at 10.30 a.m. 

We look forward to welcoming you to one of the Meetings. 

Upcoming Meetings

About Us

For Quakers, faith is about the whole of life. We seek, in our own lives and with others, to build a fairer, more truthful and more peaceful world. Our understanding of God is shaped by personal experience; different people use words that they find helpful and meaningful.